Before you do anything just think about these points.
You have a 20 gall?? (91 litre) pressure vessel.
This will take in 28 litres of water in rising in pressure from 30psi to 50psi (if precharged to 30psi) and will release the same amount, 28 litres, when the pressure falls from 50psi to 30psi.
Assume the pump is a fixed speed pump pumping 30LPM.
You open a tap to give a flow rate of 10LPM.
The pressure vessel will supply 28 litres of water in 2.8 minutes in falling from 50psi to 30psi, the pump then starts and will supply the 10 LPM to the tap, the remaining 20LPM will recharge and raise the pressure vessel from 30psi to 50psi in 1.4 minutes. The only way with a fixed speed pump that the pressure can stay at exactly 30psi is if the tap flowrate is exactly the same as the pump capacity, 30LPM.
The only technical reason that I can think of is that the pump is a variable speed unit, maybe for some reason it was set to 100% output for years and something has changed the setting?.
Have you any details or links to this pump and its controls?
Why is it a problem for you if the pump (now) runs at a constant 30psi or 2bar?
I can't see the pressure vessel being a problem, if it has a membrane and is holed then the pump will start immediately as soon as any tap is opened but you would have noticed this. If the precharge pressure is 0 psi for some reason or other then the pressure vessel will only supply 10 litres of water resulting in the pump starting/stopping more frequently.
Pump problem? its supplying the required flowrate at a constant 30psi and then cuts out at 50psi when demand is over.
Anyway once you establish as to whether its on fixed or variable speed will narrow down your search for a solution.